1. When my husband became indifferent to me and began to hang out with other women, it tormented me. I wanted a divorce, but I also wanted to work things out with him.2. The wife has been tormented by her abusive husband.
tormenttorment 是折磨或煎熬的很貼切的翻譯。It torments you = 讓你受盡折磨
Don't dig yourself into a deeer hole by saying something stupid.