1. After her divorce, she became traumatized and helpless.2. The widow has been depressed since her husband died.
 traumatized; hurt; distressed depressed; dejected; downhearted; helpless通常講一個人落魄, 是指他受了重大事件的打擊 (用) 之後失志 (用), 或是從很優越的條件轉變到很差的條件.
When a man and a woman start dating, they need to go through an adjustment perod before they decide to marry each other.